Monday, May 19, 2025

A Long Walk to Kenny


Tuesday, May 13 - Monday, May 19, 2025

Quick Note from Mom - They work seems to be picking up a little now that Gabe and Elder Jara are the only two elders working the area of Cartagena. They still love the bishop and also got to meet the stake president this week and have dinner with his family, and he's awesome too! They met a guy named Kenny from Nigeria and committed him to baptism in a couple weeks! Elder Jara still cooks all of Gabe's meals for him, and a majority of the pics he uploads lately are of the food. lol Here are his notes!

1. Miembros

2. Stake conference 

4. KENNY

3. Amigos

Miembros - We've been working a lot more with members recently and it's been pretty helpful because we've found a couple people through it. We initially started working with the members more because the previous Elders (Leal and Salmeron) made a lot of the members mad for various reasons. One of which was that they ditched a less active family that had invited them over to eat, and the family had 2 friends who were interested in the church. Then the other Elders were mad when the family called and asked why they weren't at their house💀. But overall we've been working really well with the members recently.

Stake Conference - We all got to got the huge chapel of Mar Menor(the average chapel in Utah) for stake conference. It was really good and we got to see President Obando because he spoke at the conference as well.

Kenny - We found Kenny on a park bench when I was on exchanges with Elder Sircable. He only speaks English and is from Nigeria. Our first lesson with him was on Tuesday, and we waited for the bus but it never came. So when he said he was free all evening we decided to walk there. We walked for like an hour on the highway and it's actually crazy how many people yelled at us because they thought we were Jehovah's witnesses. But when we arrived we had a really good lesson and Elder Jara testified at the end with broken English. It was like me when I got to Spain and we had lessons with people in Spanish. But then we meet with him on Thursday and he excepted the invitation to be baptised. So that was awesome! We have his baptismal date set for June 1.

Amigos - We have a couple spouses of members that we found out aren't baptised. So we are working with them to help them be baptised. Then the other people we were teaching before who are kinda ghosting us because they're all younger and have exams right now. But we went from having maybe one lesson a day if we were lucky to a least 2 everyday so we are teaching a lot more now. Which has been awesome.

Gabe's Day-by-Day notes:

Tuesday, May 13: This morning a guy came and gave us wifi because we have no signal in our apartment 🙏📈. Then we had a video call with Enma which was fun. She's gonna come visit in June. Then we had a hype member meal with the Martinez family. Then we had a lesson with Kenny, the guy from Nigeria. There wasn't a bus so we trekked to his house and just walked around till we found his house. We had to use a picture he sent us to find it. It was only like a 3 street town though so it wasn't too hard. Then we had a gas Restoration lesson in English with him. Then we talked to a crazy Spaniard lady for 30 minutes. 


Wednesday, May 14: We had a great lesson today with Kimberly, her husband Gary, and their roommate Mercedes. The roommate and Gary aren't members, and Kimberly has been trying to get them coming to church. They understood everything really well and are going to continue reading the Book of Mormon with Kimberly. Then we had a volleyball activity in the evening. 


Thursday, May 15: We met with a family today who has been receiving lessons for like 20 years and been coming to church but never have been baptised. So we talked about baptism and are going to keep meeting with them to try and get them feeling ready to be baptized. Then we meet with Lovepreet (the Indian guy who only speaks Inglés). He knows absolutely nothing about God and has no solid beliefs so that was interesting. Then we visited a less active family and that went pretty good to be honest. They where a little upset because the other missionaries ditched them when they had a family home evening set up with the family and some other investigators😬. 


Friday, May 16: A lady from the ward gave us a tortilla de patatos again which was awesome. We also had a lesson with Kenny and explained baptism and everything. I was worried because he had told us about his first baptism and how he had traveled to Jerusalem to do it in the River Jordan. But after the lesson, he accepted the invitation to be baptised which was awesome.


Saturday, May 17: We had a good lesson with Carmen this morning and Maria came and helped with the lesson too(member) then we had a soccer activity with the ward again. We also had a lesson with Leydi, which kinda went bad. But then we did a lot of street contacting. ((Ask me about the 2 girls Jara talked too) erase this after you read this) (Note from mom - Basically they talked to two pretty girls. That's it. lol)


Sunday, May 18: We had stake conference today which was great and we got to see everyone so that was fun. Then we had a good lesson with a mom and son from South Africa in English. We having more lessons in English than in Spanish recently😂. Poor Jara.


Monday, May 19: we stayed in Cartagena today for pday because we have a dinner appointment with the stake president and the Hermanas. So we went to the music store and bought the guitar Elder Jara wanted this morning, and then ate and talked with the Hermanas until we needed to leave for the stake president's house. We had a really good meeting the the stake president. His family is really awesome and he's super motivated for missionary work because his daughter is serving in Chile.












Monday, May 12, 2025

TRANSFERS: Just the Two of Us, Jamming with the Bishop




Tuesday, May 6 - Monday, May 12, 2025

Note from mom: Gabe decided to write a slightly different type of email this week, which I both like and don't like. I like it because it's more like an overview of what happened where he kind of summarizes everything all at once, but I also still like the day-by-day summary. So I'm just going to include both in this book! Basically this week, he found out he's staying with just Elder Jara in Cartagena (no new elders joining them in the piso), he's been teaching some people but none seem too serious, and he had a jam session with the Bishop, who they LOVE and seems really cool.

Here are Gabe's emails!

Okkkkk! New type of weekly email because mom said the other kind was boring.

1. Transfers

2. Teaching pool🌊

3. Members

4. Street contacting 

TRANSFERS!!!: Now in Cartagena it's just me and Elder Jara because the ZL Pires went to be AP and Elder Leonard went to be a tech Elder. So the other Elders living with us left to fill their spots. Then when we got transfer calls President told us it'll just be me and Jara here in Cartagena this transfer. Besides that the whole zone basically stayed the exact same. But I feel pretty good about it because we'll have more work to do if it's just us here in Cartagena. And I won't keep getting my pants stolen by Latinos. 

We have had the majority of the people that were progressing drop off the face of the planet for one reason or another. We ended up dropping a guy because he started flirting with us and then changed his profile photo to himself in a speedo😭💀. He would always give us crazy discounts on food from his store though. 2 candy bars that should be 3 dollars for .70 cents🍫. But we've found some cool people this week we are teaching now. 2 of them only speak English. One was a politician in  Nigeria but he wouldn't except bribes so the government tried to kill him🤯. He sent us the pictures💀. But we had a lot more lessons this week because it's just us two here. 

We ate with the Bishop and he's actually awesome. He can play anything on piano and only has to hear it a couple times. He also heard we hadn't had hot water for 2 months and within a week he found a guy from the stake who came and fixed the hot water🙏🙏. He's the best. We also ate with a member and her Husband who isn't a member; they're in there 70s. Jara made the mistake and asked why he wasn't a member and hoooollllyy. He told the most in detail story with the must vulgar words bro could find. He started explaining the story like a war veteran from WW2 with PTSD. He explained that when he was 14 years old he was one of the boys who cleaned a catholic cathedral. Then while basically screaming he told us about how he walked in on his pastor doing some very unholy things with a woman from the congregation💀🙏. The story was like 20 minutes and with a lot more detail. I learned too many new words. But that's why he's Atheist now. 

We've spent a lot of time street contacting lately and it's always a pretty funny experience to say the least. Everyone isn't to mean but the most common thing people always tell us is that they practice in their own way and don't need a church. But we know the lord will guide us to people who are ready. We just need to keep trying. 

Regular day-by-day notes:

Tuesday, May 6: This morning we had a lesson with Enma over videocall (recent convert Bradshaw and I baptized). Then we had a call for Elder Jara's training. We had a lesson with Lisseth, a women we met in the store of George. And she had never prayed before🤯. So we taught her how to pray and why it's important to pray. They we ate dinner with the bishop and it was awesome. His family is so fun. He's crazy good at the piano so he was showing us that as well. The bishop also sent a guy from the stake to fix our water heater🙏. Now we have hot water. He's carrying our careers. 


Wednesday, May 7: We had some good street contacts this morning. Then we had a lesson with Maria, her husband, and her daughter. It was interesting. They were kinda weird not gonna lie. But they seemed nice. They're going to pray about what we talked about, but not read the Book of Mormon (they can't read)😭. Then we had street contacting and found nobody BUT Miguel called us and we are meeting tomorrow. We'll see if he comes back after the crazy member scared him away🙏.


Thurday, May 8: We had a lesson with Enma this morning over videocall, which went great. After that we found some awesome people in the street. One guy came up to us and asked for our number and told us he knew we were a sign from God🤯🤯. Then we played volleyball with the ward and that was really fun.


Friday, May 9: We had District Counsel this morning in person with Elder Taylor and Elder Sircable which was great! We all ate Chinese food after and me and Sircable had a really good lesson with Jeff and his friend Daniela. We met Jeff the other day in the steet. After that me and Sircable did street contacting and meet some crazy Moroccans but found an awesome guy from Nigeria that speaks English.


Saturday, May 10: We finished up exchanges this morning, which went well, and then after that we had a lesson with Carmen in the church and a member named Lolo came and helped. Then we ate lunch with a member and her Athiest husband and he told us a wild story of why he doesn't believe in God because when he was a kid he walked in on his catholic Pastor doing very unholy things😭. Then we got ditched by one of our lessons, but had a great video call with and Indian guy and then a really fun youth activity.


Sunday, May 11: Church was really fun today. We had Kenny come for the first time and Carmen also came. Besides that though, we just street contacted and messaged members the rest of the day. Then I called my mom because it was Mother's Day (and the regular day that I call). At first she didn't answer, which I thought was crazy that my mom was ghosting me on Mother's Day, but then I called my dad's phone and it turns out she had just left her phone upstairs and didn't hear it ring. So we had a good Mother's Day chat with the fam.


Monday, May 12: We went up to Murcia for Pday which was fun. We ate a crazy amount of Dominos and then hung out for a bit before coming back to Cartagena. A member gave us Tortillas de patatas😄. Then we street contacted and found a man named Brian who's from England and says he's interested in learning more. 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿














 

Monday, May 5, 2025

"El Gran Apagon" (The Great Blackout), Baptism of Danna, and Goodbye Leal and Salmeron!


Note from mom: Again, this will cover two weeks! (Tuesday, April 22 - Monday, May 5) 

Things seemed to be a little better for Gabe with his Latino room mates this week. Gabe said they were following the rules a little better and working harder, but when I asked Gabe if he would just be content now to have everything stay the same on the next transfer, he looked at me like, "Ummm.... no." I guess Gabe kind of told the mission president, or maybe he told the APs, that he thinks it would be best to split those two up and put them both with really strong companions. As far as Gabe's greenie, Elder Jara, I think they get along pretty well. ***Update - Elder Salmeron and Leal are leaving! I wrote that pervious part a few days ago, and we just talked to Gabe yesterday and he told us that Leal and Salmeron are leaving today! More on that in his notes later...

The other big thing that happened this week was that there was this HUGE power outage in like, all of Spain and some parts of France and Portugal! We had talked to Gabe on Sunday night like usual, and then the next day (Monday, April 28) it was his P-Day and we were planning to message with him in the morning, and then he just didn't respond to any messages! Luckily, Sam Powell's mom emailed the Spain moms group chat we have, and told us we may not hear from the boys because most of Spain was out of power. So, we all just kind of waited and hoped they would respond! I finally got a message back from Gabe at about 2:00pm (about 10pm his time) and he said he was fine and he would message us tomorrow. So that was kind of exciting! Luckily, he was fine. They had traveled to Murcia for P-Day and then just hung out at the church outside and played soccer and volleyball. Then in the evening, they took a bus back home to Cartagena, Elder Jara made dinner on their gas stove, they lit some candles, and the power came back on right before bed!

Here are Gabe's notes!

Tuesday, April 22: Today has been one of the best days of the transfer. Leal and Salmeron were so much better and hardworking. We got blocked on Whatsapp, but we ended up finding three people in the northern part of town that we have lessons planned with now. We probably walked for 7 hours straight, but we have a lot of lessons planned for tomorrow now. 


Wednesday, April 23: We had a super good lesson with a man named Miguel Angel today and we had Manuel (a ward member who used to live in Utah) come with us. (We didn't know Manuel very well at the time, and this turned out to be a bad judgement call to take him along... more on that later.) It went really good and we are meeting with Miguel again tomorrow. Then we had a 2 hour long lesson with George (Latino store guy)💀. It could've been shorter but Jara started yapping. We're visiting him tomorrow to see if he prayed about the Book of Mormon. A random guy pushed Elder Jara in the street and tried to fight him because he thought we were Jehovah's witnesses. But nothing else exciting happened.


Thursday, April 24: Today was awesome! We had a lesson with Miguel Angel this morning and it went amazing. Yesterday he told us he would have to pray about baptism and today he told us he wants to be baptised! His baptism will be the 11th of May. Then we also had 2 really good lessons with Ignacio and then with Carlos about the Restoration. Then tonight, we missed a call from the AP's and when we called them back they told us they were standing downstairs outside our door🤯. So that was crazy. I am pretty sure they paid us a surprise visit because they want to check on Leal and Salmeron. We're doing exchanges with them tomorrow.


Friday, April 25: Today was crazy. Me and Elder Farholm (one of the AP's) went to the chapel and did a video lesson with Enma (the lady me and Elder Bradshaw baptized a few weeks ago and then she moved to Ireland.) Then we all had district counsel. After that, the APs left. So nothing crazy. They kind of asked me what I thought would be the best thing for Salmeron and Leal, so I told them I think it would. be best to split them up on the next transfer. But then we had a leccion with Miguel and he even brought a friend which was great! He literally is one of the nicest guys I've meet. Then we had a lesson with Brian Nuñz (lived in Orlando for a while and we haven't been able to meet since our first lesson). But we had a great lesson and now he'll be baptised on the 18th of May. Then we had another lesson with George(Latino store guy). He just has to pray about it. Then, things took kid of a turn for the worst. In our piso right before we were going to bed, Manuel (the ward member guy that we didn't know very well, but who was in lesson with us and Miguel during our first lesson) called us . He told us that Miguel called him and threatened him and said it was because of Manuel he wasn't going to be baptised. Manuel was pissed🤯. We tried calling Miguel but when we called him 5 minutes after he answered, and said he had been sleeping then hung up on us. So that stinks. And we have no idea what happened. We are trying to figure out if Miguel really is crazy, or if the ward member guy is crazy.


Saturday, April 26: Nothing from Miguel still. But we had a great soccer activity this morning with a lot of people, which was awesome. We hurried after to the capilla (church) and had a lesson with Carmen and taught her some English as well. Then me and Leal started our exchange and traveled to Mazzaron and met with the Monroys and their friends. After that, we did contacts and met with George again and he still didn't read the Book of Mormon😭. 


Saturday, April 27: We had the baptism of Danna today after church! Danna is the 17-year-old girl that I mentioned last time. We had gone over to her house because he mom was on the lists as a member, but was kind of inactive. The dad is not a member and he was the one I was kind of arguing with about teaching Danna during the week, but he was nice. He just didn't want us to teach her during the week because of her school. It was quite the show because we had the whole ward was there and then the dad's entire extended Catholic family, so the chapel was packed. But it all went well. Then we did studies and street contacting during the evening and met with Margarita again. (We had met her doing street contacting last week.) We explained baptism to her and ask if she would like to be baptised again. She said no so we read and explained Acts 19: 1-6 and she said she would like to be baptised because she understands now why its necessary! We also are having Bishop call Miguel to smooth things over because the bishop did some research and found out the member (Manuel) is the crazy one! I guess our bishop talked to his previous bishop, and he was like, "Don't ever talk to that guy again. He's bad news." Like he was wanted for crimes in America and that's why he came to Spain. Ooooopsss... we probably should not have invited him to come along to teach an amigo about the gospel. 


Monday, April 28: We went up to Murcia for Pday like always, but when we got there this morning, the power was off and then after an hour we lost all signal for our phones. At first we had stopped at the local elders' piso and they said their power was out. We just thought it was their apartment having a power issue, but then we went to the church and it didn't have power either. President Obando was able to send a message out before we all lost service, and he told everyone to go back to their home areas and stay in their apartments, but then we asked the senior missionary there at the church if we could just stay, and he said yes! All the missionaries that were there just played card games and soccer all day because we had no power and couldn't call because we had no signal. When we got back to Cartagena in the evening, we went to the store and bought candles and set them up in the piso. At the store, a lot of people were buying stuff and the shelves were getting empty. We had enough food at home, so we weren't really stressing. Right before we were about to eat dinner (thanks to the gas oven🙏) we heard everyone in the city cheering and we tried the lights and everything worked. We still don't have signal, but we have power! The power was out for this entire side of Europe. But literally everyone was outside, which was cool. Everyone was joking about it being the end of the world😂. 


Tuesday, April 29: We went to Huercal today for exchanges with Taylor and Sircable which was super fun. We were going to go up last night but couldn't because of the power outage. So we went up this morning and me and Taylor visited some members and did a couple meetings over videocall. Nothing too exciting apart from that though. 


Wednesday, April 30: We journeyed back to Cartagena today and passed through Murcia where Jara and Pires switched so we could do another exchange! I was with Pires in Cartagena and it was pretty good. We had a super good lesson with a man named Javier, and then another with George. It was really fun watching Pires teach. 


Thurday, May 1: Me and Pires drove to Murcia and I picked up Jara and we went back to Cartagena. We had a lesson with George but besides that we walked around all day and talked to a lot of crazy people. 


Friday, May 2: We had district counsel today and it went well then we ate Kabob!!! We got to see Elder and Hermana Fry (the senior couple) when they came to drop off Elder Jara's debit card so that was fun. We also had our first lesson with Jorge which went really well. Then we had another lesson with Javier and he brought his son! We just have to convince him to switch to our church🙏(he's Catholic💀).


Saturday, May 3: This morning we had a lesson with Carmen which went really good. After that though we had practically nothing all day😭. We did street contacting the rest of the day and it was pretty funny. For whatever reason, everyone was in the streets partying. The streets were packed with everyone doing craaaaazy activities. But we found a couple of people. 


Sunday, May 4: The other day, the other Elders (Leal and Salmeron) got called and told that they will both be leaving Cartagena! Elder Salmeron is going to be with a different Elder in Torrevieja (because one of the Torrevieja elders is moving to become a tech elder) and Leal is going with ZL Gallup for the week because his former companion, ZL Pires, is now going to become an AP. So for the next week it'll just be me and Jara in our apartment. But yesterday we ate at the Patriarch's house and then street contacted all night. Then we messaged all of Elder Leal and Elder Salmaron's friends (investigators) that we will be teaching from now on, since they both had to leave the area suddenly.


Monday, May 5: We did the 3 hours of cleaning this morning that the whole mission had to do probably because someone's piso was disgusting. But after that we got haircuts and the Muslim barber guy must have not liked that I was a missionary because he basically just gave me a buzzcut. Then we went to Murcia and said our goodbyes to Elder Pires because he's going to Madrid to be an AP. But after that we came back to Cartagena, just me and Jara, and did phone contacting all night. We went though the 60 plus people that Elders Leal and Salmaron hadn't contacted. But we found 3 people from it, so that was awesome. Now we just have to wait until this weekend to find out if we will be getting two new elders into our piso, or if it will just stay me and Jara for the next transfer! I think it would be fun to get two new elders because now it feels a little weird with it being just me and Elder Jara, but I just hope whoever we get is cool and wants to do the work.



























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